How to find your way in life?

find your way

How do you find your way?

This is a question that often comes up, that many people ask themselves. Let's try together to see more clearly on this point.

An image should help you understand the first thing to do to find your way. When you have to go from a point to A to a point B, you look what path you have to take, right? And you just have to search on google map, you enter the point from where you go and the point where you want to arrive, is not it? And in general, do you specify whether you are on foot, by bike or by car? And depending on the vehicle, the path is not the same, is it? I'm sure you see where I'm coming from.

How could you take the right path without knowing your means of transport? Well, that's what people do, they want to know the way to go without knowing each other. This is tantamount to taking the road for the person on foot by car, sooner or later you may find yourself in a forbidden direction or in a dead end. The first thing to do to find your way is to understand who we are.

Self-knowledge avoids paths that are not adapted to us. But this does not end here. People around us love to define us, put us in a box, it reassures them. If you do not know yourself, you may believe it, even if it does not look like you at all, and that's when you think you're a bike while you're a car. When we know who we are, we can put you in boxes, criticize you …

Nothing lies or illusions they have about you will touch you. And believe that it will save you energy losses, motivation drops or sudden stops in your way due to lack of energy. When one has a good knowledge of oneself, one knows the best way for us. We know how fast we can go. We know when, we need to ask to refuel. We know the type of fuel that needs … Self-knowledge is the best gift you can make to go to your dreams rather than go to dreams that are not yours.

Nadia Marty

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